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Monday, 21 July 2014

RELATIONSHIP ATTATCHMENTS

I have just finished my new book, Relationships,    An Astrological Guide to Relationships with Children, Partners and Parents.    Someone mentioned the attachment we have to the various people in our life and it reminded me that the word attachment means just that.....  We often do not realize that when we use a word that is is actually what is happening.
Many years ago I met an Indian Shaman who told me that he saw an oval around people (their aura) and strands of energy streaming from their Solar Plexus ( I thought we must look like a squid to them).   These energy strands go out from each person and 'pick up' feelings from others in the room.   When we feel threatened we often cross our arms across that area to protect ourselves.    Usually, when we walk into a room we can feel comfortable with some people and uncomfortable with others without even meeting them.

When we 'attach' ourselves to others we actually attach one of these energy strands to them.    This attachment can last all of our lives or it can be lightly applied and be removed in a very short time.  When someone has a strong attachment to another and that attachment is torn away from them it actually leaves a hole in the Aura.   The pain is great, and it can actually feel as if you had a hole in you.
One of the best things to do when you have had an attachment torn out of you is to have a Chakra Balance so that the Aura can be mended and the heart begin to heal.   I usually do my Chakra Balances with my Crystal Pendulum, but there are many different ways and many different healers.
The main thing to recognize is that you DO have a hole in your Aura and that can allow your energy to flow away, making it harder to recover from your situation.

One of the first rules in healing is not to take over the person's problems and keep yourself non attached so that you can be of help to them without allowing yourself to become 'attached' to their problems.

When we are attached to someone we can send them messages through these energy streams.   How often do you and a loved one pick up the phone together, finish each other' sentences, buy the same clothes or food.?   It is hard to know which one sends the message first, but it is a beautiful telephone line.
Sometimes we have unrequited love, where the love is sent out consistently along these lines but is not picked up by the person we love.    This is hard and eventually we have to 'detach' our end and find ways to heal our Aura so that we do not become bitter because we could not make an attachment.    Each person has the right to choose to do this or not to do this. We should not try to force these connections on to another as we all have our path to follow in this life and we must do it to the best of our ability.

Saturday, 21 June 2014

THE TIMES OF YOUR LIFE

At the moment we were born all the Planets were in a particular spot in the heavens.   An Astrological Chart that can show where these Planets are can give you guidance to the things you have chosen to accomplish this lifetime and the type of personality and abilities you will have.
Most people think that the challenges that they face are only connected with their life and their problems.   But, from the time we start our journey in this lifetime our Planets and Numerology follow the same program as every other person on the planet.   Our different personalities enable us to work with the way the Planets are affecting us.

Until a child is two years old their life is connected with their carers.   They do not identify their own personality until the Planet Mars returns to the position it was in when they were born.  Mars is the Planet in Astrology that indicates your drive and ambition for the things that are important to you.  So...when Mars returns for the first time we begin to get 'the terrible two's' syndrome.    Suddenly your sweet little child is shouting NO!  MINE!  etc.    This is the beginning of each person becoming their own self.
Each seven years we go through a development stage that is preparing us for life's experiences.    Until a child is seven years old they are still connected with spiritual energies and invisible friends  The next seven years is the beginning of learning the skills, education and sports that they may want to use later in life.  During that time about the age of ten or ten and a half the Planet Uranus creates a difficult aspect that creates in the child a need for independence and questioning authority.  A co-operative child can become quite difficult as they seek to become an independent person.   The Planet Chiron, known as the wounded healer or Rainbow Bridge relates to an inner wound that we carry from our past lives.  At twelve, or twelve and a half a child will be affected by this feeling of woundedness and could create worries in their mind that they and their parents do not understand.     At fourteen and a half to fifteen years their Sun sign and the Planet Saturn are in opposition to where they were placed at birth.   This creates a need to push for people to appreciate them as a person and to appreciate what they are doing and what abilities they have.   This is the beginning of the next time of fourteen to twenty one years, the years when they are developing their woman-hood or manhood and sexuality.                                                                                            

Twenty one to twenty eight are the years leading to developing their adult personality in order to move into the next stage of life that commences at 28.  ( In Numerology the number connected with this stage of life is governed by the number of the day you were born eg, 21st/= Number 3.   14th =Number 5)   This number governs your personality for the next 28 yrs. until you are 56   The number governing your life from 1 to 28 is the month you were born eg July = 7   March = 3.   The number governing your personality from 56 onwards is the year you were born eg 1965 =21/3 or 1940=14/5  This last cycle from 56 on gives you a chance to give back the knowledge you have gained over your lifetime.   It is a time to express your own personality and to help others through what you have learned.

At 29 the Planet Saturn returns to its original place in your chart.   This is known as Saturn return, and represents a time for us to get over our childish ways and start to take on adult responsibilities.   At the age of 38 to 39 the Planet Pluto makes a difficult aspect that creates a need in us to let go of the need for the physical/material things in our life and begin to appreciate our spiritual nature.   At 42 the Planet Uranus returns to an opposite position to its birth place and encourages us to really think for ourselves and accept our own personality and abilities.    At 50 to 51 years the Planet Chiron pushes us to accept our inner wounds and become the 'Rainbow Bridge' that can help others through the understanding of our problems so that we can help them.
At 58 the Planet Saturn again returns.  If selfish or unkind patterns are still in the personality by now the body (that is held together by Saturn /( skin, teeth, bones, hair) will have problems.
The last major Planetary influence we have is the Planet Uranus arriving back at the place where it began at the age of 84.  Uranus is the Planet ruling all New Age activities and acceptance.   From 84 years on you can  totally be yourself and accept your own unique personality.

Tuesday, 6 May 2014

THE ASTROLOGICAL GRAND CROSS,2014 Bringing the CHANGES.

CHANGE world wide and personal is happening to all of us.
Last night I was watching a TV show called The Voice.   A male contestant who said that he was 56 years old was telling them that he now felt the need to change his lifestyle.   Kylie Minoge, who was one of the judges told him that she had a great career overseas and last year she had an 'epifini' about time to change.  so she came back to Australia and was now working on this show.
My sister recently suffered a heart attack (from stress).  She had worked on Craft stalls for many years and was always busty creating new articles.   Last year she started stressing as many of the venues for stall holders were being closed down.  People were not buying hand crafted articles anymore.   She has four friends that have worked on stalls and created their own crafts who all became ill as well and could not continue to work.   So they were all being forced to change their lifestyle.   These ladies and my sister now are looking towards finding new interests (most of them in their 70's).    My sister is now starting to go to a meditation group and a Cardio class for exersise.
Think about your own life, and the lives of your family and friends.   How many of you are going through changes that you never thought could happen?.

Now in 2014 a Grand Cross in Astrology is a joining up of four 'square' aspects.   A square is a 90 degree aspect (joining) between two signs.  Because signs that are 90 degrees apart have the same 'action' but do it in a different manner there is always conflict and a need for resolution.    The Astrological signs that are are classed as Action signs are (Aries, Cancer, Libra and Capricorn)   Those signs need action in various ways.  Mutable signs are (Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius and Pisces)  These signs need to communicate in their own way.  The Fixed signs are (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius) These signs have 'fixed' ideas as to how things should be.
The Grand Cross (joining four of these square aspects to form a square) is touching on the four Action  sign houses in the chart (creating a need for action for all) and the planets travelling through those signs are affecting all humanity.  The Planet Uranus, that is connected to the Aquarian Age we are now entering is in Aries/the sign of action.  The Planet Jupiter, that is connected with travel, knowledge and optimism is in Cancer, the sign of home and families (particularly Mother)  The sign of Mars, (energy, and fighting) is now in the peaceful sign of Libra (peace and partnership).   The sign of Pluto (power, renewal, underground) is now in the sign of Capricorn (business, father, responsibility)
Uranus in Aries relates to pioneering new Aquarian Age attitudes.  Jupiter in Cancer indicates a need to move away from old close ideas in nurturing and have more independent ideas.   Mars in Libra, is a need to stand up and fight for partnership rights.   Pluto in Capricorn is about going underground (Pluto) to bring out underground happenings in business and controlled groups.

Whenever there is a square aspect in a chart there is a need to work on the energies of the signs and to let go of old habits in order to grow spiritually.    It is very rarely that these square aspects join up in a chart and create a square.   What then happens is that the stress that is being worked on in one square aspect is connected to the next and the next, so that each one causes more involved stress.   It can have a whirl wind affect that pushes you to change and move on.   This is an extremely strong aspect and its affects can be seen not only in our own lives but in the dramas that we know are happening all over the world.
We have also recently had two eclipses that have worked with this Grand Cross in order to move humanity forward.

Saturday, 12 April 2014

WORKING WITH GUIDES AND ANGELS (part two)

I attended Enmore Spiritualist Church for many years.  At several of our meetings different mediums told me that by the end of October I would have a change of direction in my life and never do the same things again.   As I had worked and taught at the Interior Decorating Center in Sydney for many years and had just completed new Courses for our students I could not take them seriously.                                                       My boss had always been difficult and had recently been diagnosed with  Bi Polar disease.   He wanted me to spend more time at work, but as I was working there most days and nights I said no.     He became enraged at this and threw out (and down the stairs) a new employee I introduced him to.  When I followed him to try to stop him he slammed the front door and I was locked out.   BIG signpost!!!    I went to the home of our business manager that was close by, got the front door key, took my handbag and left.!!   That was on 11th November, and as I was driving in to work that morning I thought to myself, "Well, nothing has changed"   But of course it had.  And my life was totally different from then on.      Looking back I can see  the work of my Guides pushing me out to do other things.  
I had been told by a Numerologist that I should work for myself, but up till now had always worked for others.   It seemed a strange concept......what could I do?
I wrote down all my skills,  I could teach, I could do Astrology, I could do Graphology (the study of handwriting) I had studied Colour Psychology, and Colour Healing, and Crystal Healing.      
I put them all together and rented a room in Pitt St. Sydney and started my own School of Life Path Studies.
I wanted to learn more about Aura Soma (an English based Colour healing method) and so I took a course at Nature Care, Sydney as they had an English woman who was going to teach that subject.
This lady left after several weeks and we were without a teacher.   I had organised a Colour Healing weekend at Picton and some of the class students attended.    At the end of the weekend they said to me "why don't you apply to teach Colour at Nature Care?  We learned more from you over the weekend than all the classes with the lady from England.    I had not thought to do that as all my learning was not connected with obtaining certificates or diplomas.    However I did go and see the Director of Nature Care and he said that I was welcome to start.   I taught there for nine years and created a 12 week class and then a Diploma Course.   I did have several months away in the UK during that time.   While I was there I was introduced to the Secretary of the Colour Therapy Association of the UK.   She asked me to be their representative in Australia.  I thought Australia was a bit too much but said I would do New South Wales.
That gave me the incentive to start my Academy of Colour and  eventually to have Colour Festivals each year for six years.
I love all the work that I do and constantly thank my Guides and Angels for the help and direction they have shown me over the years.

Saturday, 15 March 2014

WORKING WITH OUR GUIDES AND ANGELS

Before we come back to this School of Earth we make arrangements with our Guides and Angels about the things we wish to achieve in this life and the improvements we wish to make in our eternal Soul.
When we arrive here we often fall into the trap of thinking that WE are organizing our lives and not appreciating all the help and direction our Guides give us.
It is their job to steer us into the situations we need in order to do the jobs we have come to do and to help us to grow through interaction with others.
Once we really understand that they are with us at all times and try to see just what they are guiding us into life becomes much more peaceful as we are not struggling and pushing to do the things that we think we SHOULD do.
Some of the things they push us into seem strange to those around us.   But I have always found that if you watch for the signposts in life and accept that you are being helped many new and wonderful opportunities are opened up for you.
My guidance started early.  I did not know it was guidance then.  I just thought (like an Aussie) that I would 'give it a go'.
At one of my earliest jobs selling fabrics, one of my workmates asked me to come along and visit the Cub Pack she was running at Arncliffe (a nearby suburb).   I went with her for a few weeks and then she told me that she was getting married and could not run the Pack any more and would I be interested in taking them over. She said that they would have to close if no one did..  I was only 17 and you were not allowed to work with the kids until you were 18.  However I said that I would "give it a go".  This gave me skills in organizing and teaching, it was also where I met my husband to be who was also a Cubmaster.             When I was married I needed another interest.   A friend told me about the local Art Society and soon became the organizer of their exhibitions as no one else wanted the job..  This knowledge of Art and Colours was a great help to me later in life when I started my Academy of Colour  Organizing exhibitions gave me an understanding of contacting newspapers and advertising that I would need when I started my School of Life Path Studies.
While I was married I worked at David Jones in the furniture department.  My boss was a young man who saw I needed to stretch my mind.  He suggested a Handwriting Course in Sydney might interest me.  I asked the manager and was allowed to go each Thursday evening.   The teacher was John Adams, who was also an Astrologer.   After studying Handwriting (which I still use today) for a few years Mr. Adams said that anyone who was interested could stay after class and learn Astrology.   That sounded interesting so I stayed and studied with him for another four years.
My marriage broke up at the time that my young boss was starting an Interior Decorating School in Sydney.  He asked me to come and work for him as I had knowledge of furniture, carpets, curtains, colours .and decorating.    I was supposed to be a rep. for his business but he soon decided that I should go out and teach the ladies in the suburbs about Interior Decorating.    I protested but was given notes for the classes and told to get going.   I did, and ended up (after seven years) being the Principal of the School  and writing new Courses for Australia and Asia.
I had lived by myself in Sydney but when my step father became ill I went to live with my mother in Kogarah to give her the help she needed.
I lived with my mother for ten years and she was in reasonable health.   I had joined a group called Spiritual Venturers run by Edmund Harold who taught us Crystal Healing and Colour Healing.   We had weekly meditations.  One week I found myself sitting on the edge of a cliff.  Two Angels told me to lean over until I fell.  A little way down they spread out their wings and caught me and said "You are going to be all right"   The next week they let me fall a little further, almost to the jagged rocks below.  They once more caught me in their wings and said "you are going to be all right"   The next week they told me that I was starting to grow wings, and I found that I had little rainbow wings.  They took my hand and we flew around.   The next week they told me that I could fly by myself now and I saw that I had grown large white wings.
The following week Sai Baba appeared, took me by the hand and led me to the cliff face.  He said "you are on your own now".   I did not know what that meant but the next week my mother died and I realized that I was truly on my own.   But I had been kindly prepared and knew things would be all right.
That was the beginning of starting my own School of Life Path Studies and many other wonderful Signposts.


Sunday, 16 February 2014

WE NEED CHANGE

THE ONLY THING CONSTANT IS CHANGE.

IF YOU ALWAYS DO WHAT YOU ALWAYS DID, YOU WILL ALWAYS GET WHAT YOU ALWAYS GOT.

CHANGE is something many people are frightened of.   However, we live with it all our lives and when we can accept change and appreciate it's benefits we do not have the affects on our personality that striving to always control our lives and trying to keep things exactly as they always have been.

Could you have stopped your body from growing from a baby, to a child, to a teenager to an adult to mature person?  No.  your body was in the right shape and size to cope with the jobs it had to do for it's growth.  You could not control it.
Can you imagine as a baby or a little child being able to go to work and cope with the pressures associated with that.   You have had years of experience and changes in your life by then to be able to cope.   If you do not cope perhaps you are wishing that you were still that little baby or child so that someone else could take the responsibility that is expected of you at this time of your life.

Apart from personal change we are now living in a time of HUGE CHANGE.   We have left behind the Piscean Age of sacrifice and are entering the Aquarian Age of tolerance and  acceptance .    Many old attitudes and acceptance of things that we knew were wrong  but were used to them are now being swept away by the new energy of personal beliefs and confidence in our own opinions.

Our Numerology also has changed.  Babies are now being born without 1 or 9 in their birth date.
1 has always represented me, I, what I want.  9 has always represented accepted principles.
The number 2 that all babies have now relates to support and mothering.

Also supporting the New Age Principles of caring and supporting others is the fact that we are now developing a NEW set of Chakras.   These Chakras sit in the second layer of our Aura, the Orange layer that is connected with Relationships.  Instead of the Chakras we are used to, that are in the first Red layer around our body, these Chakras relate to working with others, using tolerance and acceptance instead of us thinking that we SHOULD do all the things that our current Chakras expect of us.
They are Red/Orange, Orange/Yellow (gold) Yellow/Green, Green/Blue (turquoise) and Blue/Violet (pink violet)
One of my students pointed out to me recently that ALL of these colours are currently in the clothing shops so that we can start wearing the new colours and feel their affect.

Astrologically Planets move all the time, so from the time you are born the Planets have moved all your life giving you new opportunities to do the things your Astrology Chart shows that you have come to do.   It is always great to see a current, progressed chart and observe how planets have moved into different signs and sections of your Chart, showing you your current possibilities and confirmation of how you have changed and improved your personality.
It takes 30 years for the Sun to move into the next sign, so if you are over 30 you are not being influenced by your Birth sign.   Depending on how many days you are into your Sign will depend on when it moves into the next one.   Most Signs start on 21st or 22nd of each month.   So if you were 10 days into your Sign you would be 20 when you moved into the next one.   If you were 15 days into your Sign your would be 15 when the Sun moved into the next one.
All the other Planets move too.  Not only their Sign but their placement in your Chart.
We all come to 'The School of Earth' to learn our next set of lessons.

The major significator of that change is in the form of the North and South Nodes of the Moon.
These are in EVERYBODY'S Chart, so there is no getting away from them
The South Node indicates the attitudes you have built into your personality over many lifetimes.  These are habits and emotions that you feel comfortable with.    You have come here this lifetime to improve these attitudes and gain growth and wisdom.
The North Node is EXACTLY the opposite of what you have brought with you.  It is there to show you what you have come to learn.  
This is not easy.   Don't think that others have an easier time than you.  We all have them, and we all have things to learn.

ALL THESE CHANGES GIVES YOU THE OPPORTUNITY FOR GROWTH.!!

Try not to control your life.  Look for the Signposts along the way, showing you the way to go; and be grateful for the Guiding Angels that are always there to move you into new situations where you can CHANGE and GROW.

Once you realize that YOU chose this life to improve your immortal Soul and that EVERY situation, good or bad in your life is in order to CHANGE old attitudes and beliefs so that you might become the best person you can be in this lifetime, life becomes beautiful.

Thursday, 16 January 2014

OUR LIVES ARE NUMBERED

In order to allow himself/herself to learn lessons in the great School of Life mankind has 'tuned in' to the rhythm of the planets and the order of numbers to mark off periods in their life which gives them 'time' to become adjusted to the new direction and lessons they have come to work on in their current incarnation.

Our minds and bodies respond to the magical numbers of 3, 7, 9 and 12 in order to accept the changes that are presented to us during our lifetimes.
We are gradually 'toughened' and 'prepared' each 7 years of our lifetime, commencing from the first detachment from our previous lives.  This occurs at the age of 7 when the first 'layer' of earthly 'physical' energy cuts off our 'invisible' friends and our natural understanding of the other world in which we have dwelt.
At 14 we are once more enveloped in earth's physical energies as we are prepared to concentrate most of our energies on our physical growth and development.   In native cultures this is the beginning of manhood.
At 21 we are moved into taking on the responsibility of earning a living and developing our skills.
At 28 we are  considered to be 'hardened' enough to cope with the earth's density and take on responsibilities such as a career and family.

Every 9 years we complete a personal cycle of yin and yang (male and female) when we can have alternating (personal) years of creating, followed by accepting and working with that creativity in the following year until the 9th year of each cycle.     In this year we need to 'tidy up' things left to do to complete the cycle so as to be able to start off afresh on the next personal 1 year.  This 1 year is often confusing as we have to make some decisions as to our direction for the next 9 years.
The odd years 1,3, 5, 7 and 9 are creative years.  The even numbers 2,4,6, and 8 are the years in which we have to work with the energy created in the odd numbered years
To find our own personal year we need to add together the day of birth number, the month of birth and the number of the current year.  e.g.   14/6/2014  = 14(5) + 6 + 2014(7)   5 + 6 + 7 = 18   1 +8 = 9  This will be a 9 personal year to conclude a cycle.                                                                                                      3/11/ 2014 =.  3 + 11(2) + 2014(7)   3 + 2 + 7 = 12(3)         This will be a 3 year (a good number for creating, communicating and traveling)
The number will affect you all the year but I have noticed over my 40 years of doing Astrology/Numerology charts that the next number to the one you are in will start to work in with the current number from your Birthday.  This will bring slight changes.

An overall picture of our responses to life is mirrored in three major 'cycles' which relate to the day, month and year which we chose to incarnate in this lifetime.    Each of these cycles are 28 years apart.   The first witch relates to the Month that you are born encompasses our 7 year learning periods, our adjusting and adapting time.  At the end of this we are considered 'ready' for life's responsibilities.  At this time Saturn ( the Planet of responsibility) is returning to it's original  position in a person's Astrological Chart.  When Saturn 'returns' at approximately 29 years he is also demanding that we let go of foolish or childish attitudes and behaviors and take on life's lessons and developments.     The second cycle which relates to the number of the Day we were born is from 28 to 56 years is about becoming a parent, the worker the 'breadwinner' etc.
The third Cycle is from 56 years on ( it  relates to the number of the Year of your life) and it indicates a time when all of the knowledge and abilities you have gained during the last 56 years can be used in helping others and giving back to society.
This last cycle is effective for the rest of your life.  Seven and nine year cycles still keep working but they do not influence your life as much as the three main cycles.